We are neighbors first. We won't agree on everything — and we don't need to. But how we disagree matters. These guidelines apply to our meetings, our emails, and every conversation we have as a community. They exist for one reason: so everyone feels safe to speak, and so our differences make us stronger instead of driving us apart.
Our ground rules
- Respect every neighbor. Treat others the way you'd want to be treated. Disagree with ideas — never attack the person.
- Assume good faith. Start from the belief that your neighbors want what's best for the community, even when they see it differently.
- One voice at a time. Let people finish. At meetings, wait to be recognized and keep comments brief so everyone gets a turn.
- Focus on the issue, not the individual. Keep it about the land, the water, and our shared future — not personalities or old grievances.
- Be honest and stick to facts. Don't spread rumors or unverified claims. If you're not sure, say so.
- Protect privacy. Don't share a neighbor's personal information, contact details, or private conversations without their permission.
- Keep confidences. Sensitive matters — legal questions, negotiations — stay within the appropriate group.
- Welcome all viewpoints. Newcomers, quiet owners, and those who disagree are all part of this community. Make room for them.
- Disagree, then unite. Debate hard, decide together, and stand as one when it counts.
At meetings
Raise your hand and wait to be recognized. Respect time limits and the facilitator so everyone is heard. Come ready to listen as much as to speak.
In writing and online
Email and messages carry tone poorly — write as if you were speaking face to face, and re-read before you send. When in doubt, pick up the phone or save it for the next meeting.
Not acceptable: personal attacks, harassment or threats, name-calling, defamation, sharing others'
private information, or disruptive behavior that prevents the group from doing its work.
Our commitment: We hold ourselves — board members, volunteers, and neighbors alike —
to these same standards. If someone falls short, we address it privately and respectfully, and we keep working
together.